|Ladies First – Impact play ABC |
IMPORTANT! This is a perfume-, nut-, citrus- & Dominant cismale-free event!
Getting verified by us plus payment in advance is required to attend!
Please read ALL the information in the EVENT, even if you have attended our events before!!!
Ladies First is a once-a-month (second Tuesday each month), femme domme queer non-heteronormative gathering/party that is designed a be a relaxed and comfortable environment where we can feel free to be ourselves, to mix and meet but also with an emphasis on play and encouraging anyone who wishes to play. There is no requirement on ability or experience, curiosity is more than enough and you will find people happy to share their skills and knowledge. Equipment and space is there to be used with imagination, so please consider coming with that in mind. We also welcome all types of consensual play (edgeplay too)!
We have organized these parties for over a year but they have been private events for invites only before, but since May they have been open events.
Time: 18.00 - 23.30 (Doors are ONLY open between 18.00 - 20.00, no admittance after 20.00! But the workshop starts at 19.00 so if you want to attend it you need to be there 18.45 at the latest)
Where: Less than 15 minutes (with public transportation) from T-centralen, Stockholm.
You will get the address after payment.
Cost: 50 SEK !!! ONLY SWISH AND PAYMENT IN ADVANCE !!!
Deadline for attending and payment: 8/9-2019 (see information about cancellation/refund under "Cancellation")
To attend, click this link: forms.gle/Ty2pnxQknpdCmZ458 and fill out the form. That is the only attending-list we will use and if you haven’t signed up on this AND payed through Swish it doesn’t count and you won't get the address.
Couples/people going together needs to register separately (one by one) on the form (this applies even if they have an account together on DS) and preferably also swish separately.
How to attend: Since we want to make sure no dominant cis-males will attend the party we have made a 3-step system for all who want to attend.
Step 1: You have to register on our form ( forms.gle/Ty2pnxQknpdCmZ458 ) and fill in your name, Darkside nick, etc. We will then check your Darkside profile and make sure that you are a part of our target group (aka: not a dominant cis-male and also very LGBT-friendly).
Step 2: You get our swish number, swish us 50 SEK.
IMPORTANT! Message on Swish: Your Darkside-nick.
Step 3: You get the address to the venue.
Note: If the name on your swish seems to be a male name and you have marked dominant/top on your DS-profile we will double check it before you get the address. We understand that some women with trans background might not have changed their legal name yet but to be able to avoid dominant cis-males, we will have to double check this unfortunately. We are sorry for the inconvenience.
The swish number (and after that the address) won't be sent to you as soon as you register/pay, but we will send it out with regular intervals during the registration time.
Theme: Impact Play ABC
Bring your tools and a top/bottom (if you have one, you can come without company too if course) and have fun!
Some attending (not all) will be able to borrow tools but if you have some of your own please bring them.
(all play is of course allowed but impact play is encouraged).
There will be a workshop about Tha basics of Flogging and Impact Play in the beginning of the evening, held by Tottis (Your_ NightWish) and Kimpe. We have had Impact play-workshops before where we tried to cover as much if the subject as possible but since the knowledge and experience levels are so varying with our attendees we decided to do just a basic workshop now, for those who want to learn (or repeat) the basics in Impact Play. And later this fall/winter we will have a "next-step" workshop.
Dresscode: Come in what makes you feel the most comfortable, awesome and confident (but leave the sweatpants at home). But of course we also encourage anything that is according to the theme!
To gain entrance: The doors on the venue will be open between 18.00 - 20.00 and that is the only time you will have to enter. NO admittance after 20.00! And since we have a workshop on this event we want that those who want to attend the workshop to be there 18.45 at the latest. If you don't want to attend the workshop you can come after 18.45 (and until 20.00) but do so quietly and calmly so that you don't interrupt the workshop.
Cancellation: If you attend through the form and pay the fee and then realize you absolutely won't be able come we accept cancellation until the same day as the deadline for attending is, i.e. 2 days before the event, if you want your 50 SEK back. If you cancel later you can't get a refund.
We have a maximum intake of 25 guests. We will contact you if you are on the waiting list and not among the first 25, if anyone withdraw their interest the next person in line will get to attend. So if you have registered to attend and are unable to come please let us know immediately so someone else can get you spot instead.
If you have any questions, feel free to send a PM here on darkside or email us at: ClubLadiesFirst@gmail.com
You'll find our policy here: goo.gl/msspMU
We do not tolerate intolerance. All are required to respect every else's right to be there and we do not accept intolerant language or behavior. The space has a queer accepting focus, but you are welcome, whether hetero, LGB, non-binary, trans, cis, asexual or otherwise. Ladies first indicates that the space leans to the femme. If you have any questions please ask us directly. We reserve the right to ask you to leave if you are disrespectful.
Ladies First-events are arranged by Tottis (Your_ NightWish), Kimpe, MissMadigan and liebling.
Together we have many years of experience on the scene and have arranged and organized a lot of different events under a long time.
If you have questions regarding Ladies First and our events please ask through that profile (LadiesFirst) and not our private profiles.